EVERYTHING’S OKAY WITH your partner…or is it? If their behavior seems off, and you suspect cheating, it can make you feel angry, anxious, or both. “Finding any signs of infidelity [is] like a heart attack to the relationship,” says Talal H. Alsaleem, Psy.D., LMFT, an infidelity recovery specialist. “It’s an indication that there is something seriously wrong in the relationship, or on the individual level of your partner, so it needs to be treated as a priority.” This is not an issue to sweep under the rug. To be clear, cheating can be a breach of any exclusivity agreement you have with your partner—for instance, having an emotional affair, sexting, or even flirting—which means it isn’t necessarily limited to physical contact. And infidelity can be a particularly hurtful kind of trauma, because it’s happening from a loved one versus from a stranger, says Christene Lozano, M.S., LMFT, a certified sex therapist. Potential Signs of CheatingBut what are the signs of cheating? They’ll vary from person to person. Remember, just because your partner has exhibited these signs, it doesn’t mean they’re definitely unfaithful. For instance, while some sources may say your partner’s new underwear is a sign, these sexy upgrades might just mean they want to look better for themselves, or for you. Alternatively, there also are people who “hide very well,” Lozano says.Check out these signs of infidelity, along with expert advice on how to address any suspicions. (Hint: Sources do not suggest channeling Law & Order detectives to find… Click below to read the full story from Men’s Health
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18 Signs Your Partner Might Be Cheating, According to Infidelity Experts
