WE NEED TO give a shoutout to an unsung hero in the bedroom: Fingering. Fingering can be super pleasurable for people with a vulva. We like to think of fingering not just as “foreplay,” but as a part of the main event. This is true with all sex acts. It deserves its moment to shine.Fingering needs to be done well in order to produce good results. Bad digital stimulation isn’t just a huge turn-off; it can also be uncomfortable, or even painful. No one needs that on their journey to sexual bliss! Fortunately, if you study up on vulva anatomy, bring in copious amounts of lube, communicate with your partner, and are open to using some toys, you can get your fingering technique to top-tier levels.What is fingering?Before we dive into techniques, let’s get clear on what exactly fingering is. “Fingering” can refer to any form of digital stimulation in or on a partner’s genitals. This can include external clitoral stimulation, vaginal stimulation, or a combo of both. And, hey, you might even get some anal stimulation in there (but more on that later). There are plenty of ways you can stimulate a partner’s vulva or vagina, but according to sex educator Tuck Malloy, fingers are among your best tools. “Many of us have more control over how to use our fingers than a toy or penis,” Malloy explains. “They are full of nerve endings, which makes them very good at feeling where things are and touching [vulvas] in specific… Click below to read the full story from Men’s Health
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