I’m Zachary Zane, a sex writer, author, and ethical boyslut (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I’m very, very open about it). Over the years, I’ve had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I’ve learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I’m here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn’t just “communicate with your partner” because you know that already. Ask me anything—literally, anything—and I will gladly Sexplain It.To submit a question for a future column, fill out this form.Dear Sexplain It, My husband of seven years recently came out to me as bi but seems very confused about what he wants. When he told me, I thanked him and told him he was really brave. I also said I accept him for whoever he is and absolutely meant it. I love him more than anything.We had two counseling sessions, but I found them extremely hard emotionally and had to stop. He mentioned an open marriage one day, and the other said he might be polyamorous. These are two different things. Maybe at the time, he just didn’t know how he felt, but maybe he did? Long story short: He asked for a separation a few months ago. I took the request badly and felt really upset and basically aband… Click below to read the full story from Men’s Health
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